Who’s hotter now? Is it Dexter Castro or Jay Santos? Dexter Castro is 5’8″ tall and was last seen in the provocative video Erotika: M2M 2 [The Art of Striptease and Sensual Dancing]. He has appeared as a bit player in various movies and shows on tv. On the other hand, Jay Santos is 5’10”-tall and has graced bikini contests in town.